What is domestic abuse?

Domestic abuse is an incident or pattern of incidents of controlling, coercive, threatening, degrading and violent behaviour, sometimes including sexual violence. The majority of cases are often perpetrated by a partner or ex-partner, but also by a family member, extended family or carer. 

One in three women are subjected to domestic abuse and violence. In the vast majority of cases, domestic abuse is experienced by women and is perpetrated by men. 

When looking for the right support it helps to know what type of abuse is being experienced. Intimate partner, ex-partner or family abuse can take many different forms and it is not always physical. Domestic abuse can include:

  • Coercive control (a pattern of intimidation, degradation, isolation and control with the use or threat of physical or sexual violence)
  • Psychological and/or emotional abuse
  • Stalking and harassment
  • Physical or sexual abuse
  • Financial or economic abuse
  • Online or digital abuse
  • Immigration abuse (using your immigration status as means of control e.g. threatening you with deportation, convincing you that the police and other authorities are not on your side you)

I need help

If you are looking for support, please do not hesitate to contact us or speak to someone who you trust. This can be a friend, family member, neighbour or a professional (e.g. Health Visitor, GP, Social Work, domestic abuse service etc) 

Remember if you are in immediate danger please call 999.  

I'm already in your service

If you are currently a client of Hemat Gryffe Women's Aid and need more support, please contact your key worker directly or contact the Drop-In Centre and give the details of your key worker to be put through to them. 

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If you someone you know needs support for domestic abuse or honour-based abuse contact us today: 

0141 353 0859 

womensaid@hematgryffe.org.uk 

Honour-based abuse and forced marriage 

Other types of domestic abuse are honour-based abuse and forced marriage.  

Questions to ask yourself if you are unsure: 

  • Are you being physically assaulted?
  • Are you experiencing rape and sexual assault?
  • Are you threatened with exposure of intimate images or text messages being shared on social media?
  • Are you being taunted, put down, spoken to in a derogatory manner or verbally insulted?
  • Are you isolated from your friends and family?
  • Is your freedom to come and go controlled?
  • Are you accompanied to appointments?
  • Do you have access to a bank account?
  • Do you have to ask for money to buy items for yourself or for your children?
  • Are you being controlled because of your immigration status?
  • Are your phone calls being monitored?
  • Are you told that the police will not help you?
  • Are you told that you will be deported by the police?
  • Are you told that your children will be taken away?
  • Are you forced to carry out domestic household chores single handed for the entire household?
  • Are you experiencing abuse perpetrated by immediate/extended family members for behaviour(s) considered shameful and a breach of family honour? (Izzat)